I know it’s been very long that I actually posted anything on my blog since a year or something.I have been too caught up in my personal life dealing with a various issue and suffering through emotional loss. I haven’t been able to get my thoughts right to pen down anything. Fighting the depression on my own,I have tried to come out of it bravely. It wasn’t easy and it still isn’t but I have realised that life is too short to be depressed about. It’s not easy staying strong or forgetting your worries but unfortunately, we cannot control the things that we have no control of! During times like this, the only thing you can do is, keep calm and be patient. Again the two most simple things but yet the most difficult during the time when everything is going wrong.
You need to stay strong, you need to not give up, you need to believe that this all will be over and it will get fine for you. You need to look at yourself in the mirror and feel the strong power that no more how difficult the life is, you are going to make it and you will achieve the things that you want in your life. They say ‘Nothing worth never comes easy’ and hence you will go through the agony of suffering little pain in order to achieve what you want; I believe this is Universe way of testing you that how badly you want things that make you happy. So stand up and fight for it- Don’t give up. Remind yourself that you deserve every bit of happiness, that happiness can be your dream job, car, love or friendship, anything.
One important thing that you need to do daily is that – Don’t forget to love yourself!! If you can’t love yourself then you will never be able to feel the calmness in you. You would never truly know what makes you happy or why you should be happy in the first place? You may get a temporary form of happiness which will give some sort of excitement for a very little time and you will start feeling empty again. “You might wonder what I am talking about,of course, we all love our-self” but I will explain to you in a simple example. When you like or love someone immensely, and if you see them upset, do you like it? NO, you don’t and you will make sure that you do something so the person feels happy or smile again. It’s the same thing. So if you love yourself enough and when you get sad or depressed about it, your inner conscious should tell you to do something about it, so that you bring back that smile of yours.
The pictures below are not part of any fashion shoot or outfit post but it was all about making me happy. I love dressing up and posing for the camera, I like to see myself beautiful and appreciate the fact that God gave me beauty and brains both. When the picture came through I was so happy to look at them, to look at my beauty and to feel glad that I have made it, not that I have become some successful women or achieved my dreams but from willing to give up on life to willing to reliving it with new enthusiasm, I am proud that I made it through!!
And I am sure, you will too.
Today when I am writing this down,I feel a sense of power in me that is making me feel alive all over again and I hope while reading this,it’s doing the same to you.
Do let me know in the comments below anything you will like to speak or share.
All the fabulous pictures clicked by AVINASH PAWAR. a friend who finds happiness in doing photography.
Make up by Hina, a friend who finds happiness in makeup world.